Virtual VIP Support Day
Join me for a Day of Voxer to Gain Trust, Clarity & Comfort in Your Relationships
Is this you?
✦︎You’re often misjudged or misunderstood as being inattentive, indifferent, or uncaring.
✦︎ You feel like you’re living life in a bubble at a slight distance away from real life and everyone else.
✦︎ You find social interactions draining and disappointing, but yearn to feel appreciated and understood.
And while you don’t know what the answer to your problems is just yet… You certainly know what the answer ISN’T.
It’s not downplaying who you are as an AuDHDer/ADHDer. That only makes you feel more resentful in the long run and it’s also exhausting. It also doesn’t get you what you want in relationships.
It’s not being the “bigger person” and letting your needs go by the wayside because they’re not understood by others or inconvenient. That simply gives others permission to walk all over your boundaries and disregard your worth.
It’s not losing yourself in societal milestones associated with productivity and success as a path to acceptance and belonging. It doesn’t work because there’s always another milestone and it encourages endless comparison, evaluation and competitiveness which is exhausting.
You KNOW you need support to show up as you really are and put an end to proving yourself or faking your existence.
But when you look around for options, all of the stuff out there is just… Not quite what you need.
It would be great if you could…
RECEIVE REAL TIME ACCESS & DIRECTION FROM AN AUDHD RELATIONSHIP EXPERT
✔ Ten hours of support from an experienced professional with expertise helping Autistics and ADHDers navigate relationships and overcome ruptures in connection resulting from trauma and attachment.
DEEP DIVE INTO THE ASPECTS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE THE MOST TROUBLING.
✔ Process your concerns and gain in-depth, decisive strategies and the motivation you need to make transformative changes.
GET JUST THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF SUPPORT
✔ Work at your pace and within the reality of how you retain and reflect on feedback without feeling pressured to ask for what you want and respond in a 60-minute phone call. You access what you need when it suits you.
Well… I have some good news for you, friend.
That’s exactly what you sign up for when you book a Day of Voxer VIP Support with me!
Imagine a day in which you experience VIP support firsthand, without the limitations of Zoom calls or strict meeting schedules.
For AuDHDers, this format provides the freedom and flexibility that is responsive to our neurological experience to offer:
- Flexibility: Take the breaks and movement that you need to facilitate processing of information and accommodating attention spans and absorption.
- Supportive: Participate from whatever comfortable and familiar setting that works for you to reduce distractions and enhance concentration.
- Personalized Interaction: Lean into your unique learning style and preferences. Process out loud. Communicate in snippets. Write or record.
- Time Management: Eliminate travel time and reduced stress. You’re not “late” or behind.
How does a Day of Voxer VIP Support work?
Voxer is a walkie-talkie app that allows us to exchange voice and text messages.
During a Day of VIP Voxer Support , we’ll be in touch over Voxer to dive deep into whatever is keeping you stuck in your relationships. You’ll be able to pick the brain of an AuDHD relationship strategist with decades of experience working with out-of-the-box thinkers and professionals working in demanding careers needing solutions fast.
In addition, you will have access to over a decade’s worth of clinical experience and specialized training working with trauma, attachment wounds and neurodivergence. Because as you know, especially when you are seeking support, ADHD and Autism seldom travel alone and it takes a specialist to figure out what is what and go beyond a medicalized deficit approach that often reinforces stereotypes and infantalizes AuDHDers.
When you book your Voxer VIP support, you get 1:1 access to all of this professional guidance focused on building a plan that is tailored around your needs.
We brainstorm, strategize next steps, eliminate common missteps, create flow –all at your pace and attuned to your way of integrating and pacing new experience.
Step 1: Schedule Your Appointment
You don’t need to free your calendar for this. A Day of Voxer is very much like sitting in a cafe for a (long) lunch with a friend.
There is “flow” back and forth, and back and forth. Not the intensity of a zoom call, but with the natural pauses and reflection you might have in a regular conversation.
Your regular and everyday life , e.g. dinner time, taking kids to school, continues.
You just need to make sure you have enough time between your day activities to listen and reply to messages – as well as the mental space to process what we have discussed.
Step 2: Agreement & Set-Up on Voxer
If you don’t have a Voxer account, you’ll create one – it’s free. You can CLICK HERE to do so.
When you open an account, we will add each other on Voxer. Ahead of your appointment, you can message me more details about whatever you’d like to focus on. This way, we can get started as soon as your VIP day begins.
Step 3: Your VIP Access from 8:00am to 6:00pm Arizona Time.
Don’t worry – this isn’t a non stop 10-hour chat, and you’re not expected or supposed to be sitting by your phone waiting for replies.
We’ll be exchanging messages throughout the day at a steady yet relaxed pace.
You can ask questions and we can brainstorm together. The best thing about a Virtual Day Via a walkie-talkie app, is that we have space in between messages to process information and take action.
The conversation will flow on and off between us all day. And you would use me as much or as little as you need. Life will flow alongside. You’ll have plenty of time for the day-to-day tasks like walking the dog, getting lunch, and self-care…
That’s part of what makes a Virtual Day so in synch with how we each process information particularly when it there’s neurodivergence in the picture. Finally, an approach that really works for us.
What Can we Talk About or Accomplish during a Voxer VIP Day?
Here's some Examples From Past Clients:
- Figuring out “fairness” when it comes to chores in households, families or intimate relationships with mixed neurotypes.
- Learning how to be more assertive without being aggressive.
- Identifying “support” in a relationship-what’s reasonable–without falling into being *needy* or codependent.
- How might you distinguish between trauma, attachment, personality and ADHD/Autism
- Distinguishing between boundary setting and avoidance.
- Curbing automated people pleasing, fawning and constantly putting others needs ahead of your own as a pathway to acceptance in a relationship.
- Explore communication styles and strategies.
- Getting clear on relationship anxiety.
Unsure? It’s also okay if you’re not sure what you want to talk about.
Sometimes we just know that things are off somehow, but can’t really tell why, right? That is exactly where I come in.
During your Voxer VIP Day, I’ll be not only listening, but responsible for digging deep, asking the right questions questions, and keeping us on track until we get to the core of your relationship concerns.
Sometimes, it’s about what you don’t say.
By the end of your Voxer Day, You will gain clarity regarding your relationships and be able to identify next steps.
Client Love
When you book a Day of Voxer, what you’re really getting is…
Support from an AuDHD relationship expert who understands the nuanced communications and interactions of Autistics, ADHDers and AuDHDers in the context of attachment needs, trauma and the impact that all of this can have on making meaningful and sustaining connections with others which includes identifying and meeting our needs.
You get access to all of this clinical and professional experience chock-full of problem-solving strategies and insights that often fall outside of the bounds of conventional relationship wisdom.
In addition you get the pacing and privacy to process all of this and develop a game plan to put into action.
I’m known for:
✦︎ Getting to the meat of things -quickly
✦︎ Out-of-the-box and unconventional solutions
✦︎ Individualized approaches that can recognize and relate to intersecting identities, AuDHD and the layered complexity of overlapping interests and needs.
In short, an experienced problem-solver who “gets it” and can help you shift from rote behavior to where you want to be. I will restore lost hope and help you play to your strengths. If there’s a way, I will help you find it.
Ready to book your Voxer VIP Support and Take Charge of Your Life's Direction?
YOUR INVESTMENT
$350 (USD)
10 hours of availability. Ready?
Click the button below to choose a date for your Day of Voxer.
Follow the prompts to complete your booking and payment.
That’s it – I’ll see on Voxer when it’s time!
FAQ
Frequently asked questions
I’ll be available between 8:00am and 6:00pm Arizona Time. This means, most time zones get at least a handful of hours of conversation during a Virtual VIP Day Voxer.
Don’t worry. Message me and we’ll figure something out.
Anything that indicates therapy is needed or is crisis related. Coaching is more solution-focused and would pertain to things you can implement more readily. Think more along the lines of problem-solving; strategy; and reflection.
You’ll have access to me between 8:00am through 6:00pm Arizona Time. Message me if you’re on a wildly different time zone and would like an adjustment. We’ll see if we can work something out.
During a Day of Voxer, we’ll be exchanging messages at a slow yet steady pace throughout the day. You’ll want to make sure you have enough time to listen and reply to messages, and to process what we discuss. Sometimes, I’ll refer you to something I’ve written where you can get background information relevant to our discussion.
Anything you might discuss or gain from an individual coaching session is what you can replicate in a VIP day except we don’t have to “wind down” the conversation until hours later and we spend much more time discussing the core of things with ample time for reflection.
In this way, we can cover ground that typically takes weeks or months of individual coaching.
The other difference is that we are not pinned to specific times or video interaction which can also limit reflection and the valuable connections you make that help you implement relevant and practical solutions.
You also get to practice in between responses to refine your questions and pinpoint areas for additional clarity or refinement.
If you are unsure, you can always start regular coaching and then supplement that with a VIP Day.
After you book your session, you will receive a short intake form with a prompt as to what you’d like to discuss. Many people like to start with a recent problem they experienced. Don’t worry, if you still don’t know how to start when your VIP Day begins, I will begin the conversation and help get things going.
Yes, it is. And it’s available for both mobile and desktop. There is a Pro version that allows you go keep your recordings longer, but everything we need is in the free version.
Just send me a message using the chat box at the bottom right corner of this page or my contact form and I’ll get back to you. You may also text me.
